OnlyFans Girls Are Breaking Up Marriages Everyday

Girls Are Breaking Up Marriages Everyday

Myfriend, I’ll call her Missy*, 45 years old, implicitly trusted her 55-year-old husband, Bart*. He was very kind and trustworthy. She would have never thought he’d be a cheater. He was the typical “nice guy”. Church-going, tax-paying, and an all-around great guy, according to everyone.

Sure, he secretly loved sex and porn but didn’t all guys? He would never cheat? Right? Little did Missy know, he had gotten a little addiction to a certain OnlyFans star named Molly*.

For the small price of $15/month, he got to text Molly and describe all his dirty fantasies. Molly, a hot 20-something with raven black hair and blue eyes (contacts), seemed game. She filled the hole in the marriage that Bart thought he had.

Little did he know, he was probably talking to a freelancer like the one below. Not sexy and not 20. And definitely not game for sex.

Bart became more and more obsessed with Molly. He started fantasizing about meeting Molly. So he started his Internet sleuthing and discovered Molly lived within a 30 min. drive of him. After some cajoling (on his part) and some negotiating for cash (on her part), Molly agreed to meet him.

Missy obviously didn’t know. Until one day her husband had a surprising spring in his step and seemed extra happy. She knew something was up. Women always have to follow their intuition, you know? She got out the “Find My” app and tracked him to his meeting point.

While he was driving to meet Molly, his poor wife had called him five times asking why he wasn’t going to work. But more importantly, where the f**k he was going. He finally admitted what he was planning on doing and he turned around.

According to this Bustle article, this is becoming more and more common in catching cheaters:

However, in the years since location-sharing was introduced, the initial convenience has, for some, become a curse, connecting people with far more data than they’re accustomed to dealing with. Hannah, a 31-year-old from Brooklyn, was using Find My to locate her AirPods when, like Swift, she ended up seeing her former partner. Twenty-four hours after their breakup, the ex already appeared to be spending the night at an unfamiliar location. “It is information I should not have had access to,” Hannah says in retrospect.

Location-monitoring is all but expected in relationships nowadays, in part because it comes in so many forms — from Life360 to Snap Map. Whether they mean to or not, users are constantly signaling their availability or where they are in real time. Instagram beams out a bright green dot next to my username whenever I’m scrolling; Facebook Messenger allows me to toggle sharing my whereabouts. It’s so easy, people may not even know when and where they’re doing it. Just ask 31-year-old Carlotta*, whose ex seemed to have no idea he had turned location services on for Facebook Messenger while they were dating.

Bart was sheepish and ashamed he got caught. Missy also demanded to see the list of apps he downloaded, which included a bunch of dating apps going back a few years. It took her a good year+ to be able to forgive him and be able to move on. And a lot of therapy and her husband sleeping on the couch.

Technology can be a curse and a blessing. In this case, it was a blessing because Missy and her husband started the process of fixing their relationship. Hopefully, they will work it out!

In other cases, people break up because the Find My app tells the truth.

And according to Bustle, some make these discoveries by accident:

“It was definitely by accident,” she told me. “He would message me, ‘Just leaving my house for work. What are you doing tonight?’ I would see in his location services that he was somewhere completely different.” She used this information to confront him, and he admitted to sleeping with someone else.

For those with an iPhone, one location-sharing feature, Find My Friends, dominates. Apple launched its standalone app in 2011, and by 2015, it came automatically with new iPhones. Since it merged with Find My iPhone and Find My Mac in 2019, Find My has been a one-stop shop for all users’ surveillance needs. Even when I’m not actively checking in on my friends and family, my iPhone is: I’ll reliably get an alert when my boyfriend (or, really, his AirPods) have been near me for a while.

Some, especially wolves in sheep’s clothing, will feel this is an invasion of privacy.

If the person refuses to install the app and let their partner track them, that is a red flag.

Wolves In Sheep’s Clothing Are Everywhere

More than ever, figuring out a person’s intentions is essential to protecting yourself. No one wants to be conned by a wolf in sheep’s clothing.

I have found that the worst offenders of the “wolf in sheep’s clothing” appear the nicest. But their actions show what they really think.

Back in college, I had a friend named Jane*. She was really outgoing and friendly and seemed to be friends with everyone. We all thought she was great. She was constantly going out of her way to help other people. I think she was trying to go for sainthood.

Then the bottom fell out. One of Jane’s friends found out that Jane had committed assault as a teenager and severely injured her then-boyfriend. We were all shocked. How could Jane do that? Who was this person? Why didn’t we see the signs?

Here are ways to spot wolves in sheep’s clothing before they damage your life:

Wolves scare house pets (same as in nature!): This is a big one. I love animals and consider myself an animal whisperer. But if you invite someone over and your cat immediately hates them, you have to wonder. Dogs and cats seem to have an innate ability to sense if someone is a good person.
Wolves are super charming until they decide to turn on you: They might come across as the life as the party and so kind and wonderful. Until you get on their bad side and the teeth come out.
Wolves are super secretive: They act like they are open about their lives but some of their stories don’t add up. When you go to Google to search for them, nothing comes up because they have scrubbed the internet of all negative information. They are rarely on social media, don’t post on Instagram, and claim they are too busy for social media.
Wolves only do something nice for others when they need something: This is a classic wolf move. They are invisible and don’t remember you exist until they need something.
Wolves use religion to appear more pious or nice: This is one of the more horrible examples of what a wolf does. They constantly talk about church, going to church, or reading their Bible. They are trying to convey that they are a super moral, nice person when actually the opposite is true.
Wolves use the silent treatment: When they don’t want to communicate, they just don’t. Even if they are being incredibly rude and know they are hurting someone’s feelings, they don’t care.
Wolves are full of contradictions: They lie about where they have gone or when they are getting back. They pretend they will go to an event and then back out at the last minute with a lame reason.
Wolves call others crazy when they don’t like what someone is saying about them: For truth-tellers, someone hiding important information drives them crazy. So when the truth-teller reveals something that is verifiable bad information about the wolf, the wolf retaliates by calling the person crazy. They are trying to diminish the truth tellers’ credibility.
Wolves bring up the past and hold the past against family and friends: They do not know how to let anything go and hold grudges for ages.
Wolves act very differently with different groups of people: When they are with their pack, they are the life of the party. But then with others, they are quiet as mice. They will lie that they are “shy” or “introvert”. However, it’s clearly a lie because they have been seen in other environments and they socialize just fine.
Wolves constantly act like they are busy all the time: They never seem to have time for you.
Wolves drop friends for other friends all the time: Invite a wolf to an event. They lie and say they are sick/busy/can’t go. Then you see them tagged on Facebook, out at another event, the same time as the event you invited them to. They shift as the wind blows and don’t care if they hurt people’s feelings.
Wolves collect acquaintances but can’t seem to keep friends: They are super outgoing to collect as many people as possible. But the number of old friends they have or current friends is very few. This is because the wolf has lost friends because of their horrible behavior.